There is never a time when things are handed to you on a platter with a card saying “make that decision now”. In my life at least it is the opposite, more of a compiling effect with multiple issues (good & bad) all coming at once. How can a person deal with life and stay calm/centered/sane?
The answer is… I have NO idea.
All I can offer here is the comfort that comes with trust. Trusting both yourself, your choices, and your universe. Hooky, I know. When you really think about it though usually what we “freak out” about is out of our control. Control being the operative word here, we all love to think we have control (hint: we don’t). This trust I speak of is the trust that you are doing your best with what is going on. Trust in the fact that you are making the best decisions you can right now. Trust in yourself, your body, your relationship, your job or whatever the case may be.
Currently in my life a lot is going on and I know that our lives will be changing in big ways coming up (I really hope so). This has been a long journey for me, the trust stuff. There are still days where all I can do is cry and wine and cry some more. But then there are days when I know/feel that I am enough. Even if those moments of trust are fewer than I want, I know in my heart they are always there. All I need to do is calm myself so I can tune into my trust.
How would your life change if you took 1 minute each day and really tried to connect with the trust in life and in situations you seem to be struggling in? Would the answers become clear? Would your worry dissipate?
Try it out, just one measly minute of listening to what you trust in life, in yourself. I dare you